The 7 Tips To Satisfaction And Intimacy In Your Healthy Marriage
Do you have a Healthy Marriage and desire amazing Intimacy to enhance things? God has supplied us with enough sexuality to make this happen. Since he is the creator of our sexuality and he ordains marriage as a unity between man and woman, He also intents for you to have this enjoyment and pleasure in your marriage. Genesis 2:24-25 gives a snapshot of the intentions God has for married couples in the department of Sexual Intimacy and Satisfaction. As He desires us to become one flesh, sharing our bodies with one another in marriage, this also pertains to an intimate unity. Adam and Eve were created and in their nakedness, had no shame. They were free to desire one another and express love as one flesh.
God’s Word addresses Intimacy and Pleasure in marriage through many scriptures. We find that if this intimacy is shared by a ‘husband’ and ‘wife’ as it was designed by God, it brings deep joy and passion to the marriage which breeds a Healthy Marriage.
There are some truly amazing scriptures that give deep definition of what this intimacy and delight in marriage encompass. Here are a few:
Song of Solomon 4:9-12 You have made my heart beat faster, my sister, my bride; You have made my heart beat faster with a single glance of your eyes, With a single strand of your necklace. How beautiful is your love, my sister, my bride! How much better is your love than wine, And the fragrance of your oils than all kinds of spices! Your lips, my bride, drip honey; Honey and milk are under your tongue, And the fragrance of your garments is like the fragrance of Lebanon. A garden locked is my sister, my bride, A rock garden locked, a spring sealed up.
Song of Solomon 4:16 Awake, north wind, and come, south wind! Blow on my garden, that its fragrance may spread abroad. Let my lover come into his garden and taste its choice fruits.
Song of Solomon 7:10-13 I am my beloved’s, and his desire is for me. “Come, my beloved, let us go out into the country, let us spend the night in the villages.”Let us rise early and go to the vineyards; Let us see whether the vine has budded and its blossoms have opened, and whether the pomegranates have bloomed. There I will give you my love. “The mandrakes have given forth fragrance; And over our doors are all choice fruits, both new and old, which I have saved up for you, my beloved.
It is quite apparent that the Bible addresses Intimacy and Pleasure in a Healthy Marriage. By realizing this you are able to increase Intimacy in your marriage and put the steps in place to make it happen.
Here are 3 Starter Steps to get you going in the right direction:
(1) Communication: Communication issues in your marriage can definitely strain things in the sexual desire department. Whether it be unhealthy argument patterns, emotional issues or infidelity, it is important to understand that communication is key to resolving these things in order for them not to effect intimacy in your marriage. Typically, great communicators are also great lovers.
(2) Time Alone: This will really get things going. Spending quality time alone with your spouse and rekindling date night will help things move along much faster. Make this time for just the two of you. Typically, Intimacy will increase greatly by doing this.
(3) Move Passionately Slow: Taking your time to show that you love and care for your spouse can equate to heaps of pleasure. Being passionate goes a very long way.
With all this being said, your next step is to just put it to work. Applying these tips to your marriage will give you an opportunity to experience a saucier life with your spouse as you continue to grow a Healthy Marriage that lasts for a lifetime.
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