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Online Dating Cons

There are a lot of reasons to use an online Christian dating service. Conversely,there are also some good reasons not to use one.

Christian Dating Site Users Can Lie

Of course, lying can occur in any forum, whether it’s through an online Christian dating site, or in a Christian singles group. Pathological liars who date make the rounds everywhere. But it is a little easier to lie in front of a computer screen. And most of us have stories of folks pretending to be somebody online that they’re really not, like the dating married guy, or that single girl who manipulates that lonely single guy into spending big bucks on her.

Dating Site Photos Can Lie Too

Boy, we ain’t kidding! That’s all I’ve got to say about that. Next! If you are a little insecure and thinking about touching up, ahem…your photo, please don’t try that. Instead check out our online picture advice that will help fix you up real nice.

There is a Learning Curve Attached to christian dating Site Use

Some Christian singles get frustrated with Christian dating sites because they may not attain positive results straight away. That’s why is important to understand how to start using a Christian dating site before spending your money on a membership.

Bottom line: The dating advice here is to join some of the top Christian dating sites that offer free trial memberships, and see how they work.

Christian Dating Site Use Is Addicting

It’s very easy to get carried away when  online. Not only is it not a good idea for your health to spend too much time in front of a computer, you lose out on family, ministry and other opportunities to enjoy life.

Overall,So please see your online use as a complementary item to other ways for meeting a date in your everyday living.

David Butler
http://www.articlesbase.com/relationships-articles/online-dating-cons-755256.html

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8 Customer Reviews of “Online Dating Cons”

Mike wrote on January 28, 2010

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What are some online dating cons?
I’m new to online dating (obviously) and hear mixed stories about people’s experiences. I think I can understand the pros, like geography, but what are some of the cons of online dating?

live.here wrote on January 28, 2010

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people who mislead you on paper and are nothing like that when you finally meet them
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Jessa <3 wrote on January 28, 2010

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Been through online dating. It was a waste of time.
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Clarity wrote on January 28, 2010

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Uhm, the cons: 1. When you finally meet the person and figure out that wasn’t them in their pictures. 2. You don’t get to see the person until you decide to meet up, which may be never. 3. It gets boring fast. 4. They can say whatever about themselves whether it’s true or not…they can make themselves seem like a totally different person and when you meet them you’ll figure out they lied to you.

There are no pros to online dating. Stick to real life.
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BabeHart wrote on January 28, 2010

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I’ve dated guys I met online for the last decade almost. I’ve not had any really bad experiences, just sometimes we didn’t "click" in person.

Some cons are that some people will misrepresent themselves, especially their appearance. I’ve not experienced this, but I’ve heard and read of many experiences others have had. If appearance is important make sure the person you communicate with knows that recent photos are required, and if you can webcam that’s a plus also.

Just realize that it’s easy to be anyone online and some people will take advantage of that. Also online people are more apt to forget their manners and courtesy. I’ve had more brushoffs online than ever offline. It’s as if people don’t consider just because you haven’t met, the other person still has feelings. If you are communicating with someone and you lose interest, tell them…don’t just cease communication and assume they’ll figure it out.

Otherwise, it’s a great tool to meet people. I’ve met people from my local area that I might not have ever crossed paths with in my everyday life. It really broadens your dating pool, especially if you are open to meeting people from outside your local area.

Be honest, and be careful…good luck!
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GoodGuy wrote on January 28, 2010

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Almost a year ago, I joined several online dating sites. I worked those sites for hours and hours every day for three months. I couldn’t tell you how many thousands of emails I sent out without meeting one single real person. If the woman did not look like the south end of a northbound hog, then EVERY single solitary woman online on these sites was a fake ad that attempts to lead you to join another pay/dating site to contact her, or some porn site to see her pictures, or some other such B.S. such as the 500 pound wonders that list themselves as, "have a few extra pounds"! Now from experience I will ask you, If a woman is at all decent looking and has anything resembling a personality, why would she need the internet to find a date?
The answer is "She Doesn’t"! Any such woman can have a date 5 minutes after leaving her house, but not so for the guys who are suckered into these sites by the millions. I will never use one of these online sites again, and I have high suspicions about some people on here that give these sites a good report. They are a pure waste of time and money and effort. Go out make friends and do your choosing there. You will have much more success.
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veroniica12 wrote on January 28, 2010

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I work for an online dating/social networking site, but I’m happy to answer this question truthfully :)

Cons:
1. The person may represent their physical attributes or personality traits
2. The person may try to scam you for money, or lead you to another site.
3. The person may just be looking for sex, not a relationship

But the pros are
1. You can meet many people at once and not feel like you’ve wasted a ton of time
2. You know that the people there are looking for dates, that’s why they’re on the site
3. You can refine your search since most profiles allow you to search for people based on specific criteria such as race, gender, orientation, interests, personality traits, etc – you can’t really do this in person, you have to go out on the actual date to find out a good portion of that stuff.
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josephina wrote on January 28, 2010

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